I think I will start with some advice. :D

My advice goes out to anyone who needs it and if you want send me a comment on something and I'll reply on my next post or take advice from my life experiences(:


One of my closest friends, Rozanan, is having problems with her girlfriend. Everyday her girlfriend, Tosha, is accusing of her of cheating. Of course Rozanna denies it, even though she has a record of cheating (I should know) she's trying her hardest to be loyal to Tosha. Tosha is super worried though and won't leave her alone about it. She yells at Roz for not replying fast enough and for falling asleep when they are texting at night. Rozziee used to be really happy but lately she's been sinking even farther into depression. Yesterday her girlfriend texted her during class and told her that she had kissed another girl. She was crying for the rest of the period and then she was fine because Tosha had told her that she didn't even kiss the girl back. Trying my hardest to keep them together I told her to forget about it because I want her to be happy. Then this morning I found out that she was talking to our friend Emma and had told her that the girl had kissed her on the cheek and then she kissed her back. Emma asked me to tell Rozanna so I did. Rozanna was of course depressed and sad and cried all day until lunch. I left at lunch because I didn't feel good but she wasn't as depressed because she "loves" her girlfriend and will doesn't want to lose her.

My advice:
Love is not something that happens when you are a teenager. It seems like it, but it really doesn't happen. Tosha is cheating on you and she treats you horribly. She has trust issues and obviously it's her own guilty conscience. I know you like her a lot and it's going to hurt like hell to let her go, but she isn't good for you. She sees that you aren't going to break up with her and you're just going to let her walk all over you and use you. You can't let her do that to you. Be strong. I'm here if you need me, just let go of this, it's holding you down and it's taking your amazing personality and the amazing person you used to be with it. I miss you.