What is love really about...

Does anyone really even know what love is? No, I don't think so. I think that people can show examples of love, but Love is it's own thing. It's this big... thing that no one will ever fully understand. It's an emotion you will only be able to feel, only be able to tell your reactions to, but never actually define. My examples of loving someone are when you can't go through a whole hour without them popping into your mind. You can't buy clothes without thinking 'Hmm... I wonder what they'll think when they see me in this...' or when they smile and you just have to smile back. Love isn't all the fairy-tale people make it out to be. It's just something that happens, something that you deal with, and something that will never go away. Yes, you can get butterflies, yes there will always be a physical attraction, yes they will make you laugh, but when you meet them you aren't going to go float to cloud 9 and rest there in your perfectly happy ever after. Nothing works that way but movies and stories. Books and scripts that are manipulated into ending where everyone is happy in the end and all the problems are better are all these horribly false tales. It's like when a girl stuffs her bra... FALSE ADVERTISEMENT!! It looks nice and good and just wonderful on the outside and then you dive in and... hold up... what the hell is this?!?! I'm in a relationship and we got in a fight and I expected everything to just fall together like on movies... but.. nothing is getting better. That's because you didn't put in enough effort. A relationship is like a job and no, just because you're in love it doesn't get magically better, if anything it gets worse! You are both scared of losing the other, afraid of having to go without what you need so bad and the pressure builds and builds and it'll finally explode. Just don't give up! Love is worth fighting for if it's true, and you'll find yourself fighting for it, but nothing is going to work if you don't put forth your best effort! I'm sorry but, no one will ever have a happily ever after....